Day23.
THEME : Body
Language
TITLE : Which One Is Better to Communicate?’
TITLE : Which One Is Better to Communicate?’
Is using body
languages important when people talk? Or, is using only words important when
people talk? Both are totally important to communicate.
Now, I’d like
to talk about body languages. Body language consists of many things which are
body postures, gestures, facial expressions, eye movements and so on. And the
body language includes conscious and unconscious actions.
On the one
hand, unintentional body languages are making an eye rub, a chin rest, a lip touch, a nose itch, a
head scratch, and an ear scratch, crossing
arms cross and a finger lock and so on.
On the other hand, intentional body languages are nodding people’s head to
show understanding, pointing to indicate
something, touching to express their feelings, crossing arms to protect from
barriers and so on.
When we use
body languages, the body languages are involved in many meanings.
Whenever we want to emphasize a point or relay a message or posture, we can
make boredom or great interests known to others and convey encouragement or
caution by using body languages. For example, widening eyes mean appeal, invitation
and interests. And Frequent blinking of eyes means a sign of
excitement or pressure. Oppositely, infrequent blinking of eyes means boredom. In addition, intertwining
legs when sitting especially women means insecurity or sexual posing. Like this, whenever people communicate to each other, they are liable
to use gestures consciously or unconsciously.
As the proverb
goes, “Actions speak louder than words”. It is more effective to act directly
than to speak of actions. However, it can sometimes have
misunderstanding about action. Before talking, if we use body languages
directly, we can have misunderstanding to each
other.
As an outcome,
in my perspective, using appropriate body languages are very important to
communicate. Not only to express people’s feelings and ideas, but also the more body languages people use, the
closer to each other people are. Because when people use proper body languages,
they excellently transmit their opinion to others. Furthermore, they express
politely their attitudes by using body languages. Whoever uses body languages,
others can be impressed on their mind. Therefore, when we talk to each other,
we can intimately share our mind and feelings by using gestures, facial
expressions and eye movements.
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